More Meat than Rice!

To my sisters, females specifically.  You need to be each other's keepers.  There are often situations where a woman is beaten or killed or the victim of some other kind of abuse or violence and one can hear other women ill-speaking her or supposing that the woman is somehow at fault.  There is NO REASON for violence or the abuse of ANYONE much less by a man against a woman. I've heard women say things like "well and she want to horn?" OR "she must be do something form him to beat  her so".  I've even heard a woman say "well look how she does be getting on; SHE LOOK for that".  MADNESS. MADness I say. If women are not looking out for women then who is? Bcuz guess what; these men, who you fighting for and clamouring over and giving a pass and whatnot, they gonna do the same thing to you.  The next time you hear someone utter some foolishness about "she Look for dat" ask her if she would say the same if it were her own daughter ...

 Life - It ain't easy but it sweet!

Ladies, when did it, become OK to sell your dignity and emotional well being for attention from a man? When did it become OK to forgive a man who has disrespected you without him having to even apologize? When did it become OK for a man to come to you with the expectation that your body is a tool to facilitate his masturbation?  When did it become OK for a man to put his hands on you in violence and then you explain it away as "a bad day" to the very friends that came to hel p you out of the situation?  When did it become OK to subject yourself to the rages of a man-child that has not learned to communicate or control his anger?  When did it become OK to shackle yourselves to a man who is emotionally unavailable and then subject your children to that man for at least 18 years?  When did low self-esteem become the norm?  When will it be OK to stand up for yourselves?  When will self-preservation finally take root in your minds?  How will these m...

Ladies Gentlemen and those who are yet undecided.  Some of y'all in relationships just to prove to yourself and say to the public "look someone picked me!" Funny thing is we can all see y'alls don't like each other. Now you too ashamed to leave the relationship bcuz of all the flaunting of it in folks face you did. Here's a thought: Pick your damn self. Choose to love yourself. Don't let your ego keep you in a bad situation. For better or worse my ass. This has been a Public Service Announcement. **I Choose Me graphic property of eckerd.org "I Choose Me" campaign.** Life - It ain't easy but it sweet!

Urgent message to all my sisters And all of my sisterz. If you are having relationship problems, relationship questions or you just have to think something's over, please I beg you: suspend all sexual activity with that person for as long as it takes you to get things straight. This is the ONLY way to process whatever you might need to work through with a clear mind. This has been a Public Service Announcement. Life - It ain't easy but it sweet!